Somewhere along the line, you learned that emotional honesty equals weakness. Maybe you grew up not seeing emotions expressed. Maybe
you learned as a kid that it's not safe to express your feelings.
Or maybe as you showed up for others over the years, you stuffed your feelings in the backroom of your heart and told yourself "now is not a good time."
No matter the origin. You stifled your feelings. One by one. Moment by moment. Until you got to the point where if your emotions slapped you in the face one by one, you probably couldn't even put labels on them...
Well except for anger... you know that one all too well.
As you heal from self-sacrifice, this is still a weight you carry. You're learning to remove the emotional mask so you can show up as your truest "pink flamingo" self.
But it has not been easy.
Therapy helps you get to the root emotional trauma. But in the day-to-day moments? You still lean towards what's comfortable: intellectualizing your feelings or feeling guilt for feeling.
The Pink Flamingo Club can't help you
heal from the root trauma behind those emotions. But we CAN equip and guide you as you embrace emotional honesty with yourself, with God, and with others in the everyday moments.
No more grey flamingo behaviors like...
lying to yourself and others about what you're feeling or what's really going on.
blaming
others for your feelings or getting fixated on what they did or didn't do.
shaming yourself for being a human with feelings.
feeling like you HAVE to react to what you feel right now, especially when it feels like you've been wronged.
Because while feelings are valid - they're not always true. And it's incredible what a
little healing and perspective shift can do.
And whether you choose to internalize or explode, it's time to stop letting those behaviors in everyday moments rob you of what you deeply desire: God-aligned relationships where you feel safe, seen, and supported.
The Pink Flamingo Club is a space to feel and learn emotional mastery not just awareness:
🦩To cry if you feel like it without guilt or worry about looking foolish.
🦩To
express what you're feeling without guilt or shame.
🦩To practice empathy without self-sacrifice.
🦩To know what to do when emotions are high during everyday relational moments.
🦩To see yourself and your neighbor as you both navigate a tough moment.
You'll get the tools to consistently uncover the answer God has already given you and help you develop the emotional capacity to trust yourself and implement His answer as your truest self.
Only 9/10 spots left for the
Oct 15 Taster. This is your invitation to stop intellectualizing and start feeling.
P.S: You don't need another framework for understanding your feelings. You need practice actually feeling them - and knowing what to do with
them when they rise.