"I'm always there for everyone, but no one seems to really see me."
You're used to be the only one giving and now you are healing from self-sacrifice and learning to:
receive from others,
give without
dishonoring yourself and,
let others see you.
But here is the thing. Healing from self-sacrifice doesn’t automatically stop the overthinking that comes when you spent years afraid to receive from others.
Neither does it help you know what to do or say when you’re relearning how to give to others without self-sacrifice in those everyday moments.
You still have questions like...
How do I allow myself to RECEIVE help and gifts from others? Without feeling like I owe them.
How do I know when my giving is fueled by a knee-jerk
reaction to “help” instead of ?
How do I ASK for support and what I desire without it becoming a tit-for-tat situation?
How do I share my heart? How do I let people actually see me
- and what do I do with all the fears that come up as I think about being honest about what I'm going through?
Healing through therapy and counselling helps to clear the trauma blocks.
But practice and skill building helps you to live out giving to others and receiving from others in the everyday moments without losing yourself. It also helps you uncover more areas for healing.
🦩 Ready to learn how to receive, not just give? Join the Pink Flamingo Club, a safe space to learn and build the muscle of
loving your neighbor as yourself.
